Our adoption journey

This is our journey to adopt our son who has Achondroplasia, the most common form of short stature/dwarfism and lives a half a world away. He has been waiting so long and we are unbelievably humbled to answer God's call. "Here we are Lord! Please lead the way."
John 14:18 "I will not abandon you as orphans, I will come to you."

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

July 7 - July 9 so much to be thankful for...

Before you begin reading this post, I have to warn you!! This post goes into the "short story category" which is a writing under 7,500 words. (A novel is over 40,000 – combined, maybe my blog is a novel already!) Please bear with me since there is so much to share from leaving Guangzhou until now.  I am not one that likes to leave out much!!! I hope you can find the time to read, but you are forgiven if you don’t. Thanks for following and praying!

We checked out of the hotel at 5pm then checked our bags with the hotel desk since we had to hang out until 7:30. It was too painful of a wait. The afternoon had been spent after shopping, just packing, Michael took a short snooze.  There really isn’t much of a waiting area at the hotel. We went with our backpacks to the “tea lounge.” Tried to loiter there, but they wanted us to order expensive tea, which I wasn’t going to do. We left that area and went to another one, which had a piano. No one was playing, but I was hoping they would… they never did. We did a little people watching and there was a wedding.  The piano area was a bar, smoking and non-smoking sections…I’m not sure why they think the smoke won’t go into the non-smoking section because it always finds me and sticks to my hair!  I really can’t handle it and have had my fill of smoke in China…
Getting ready to board plane for Hong Kong
Brothers on flight to Hong Kong
7:30 finally arrived and we met Elsie in the lobby, got our bags and away we went to the airport. It took a while to get there, about 35minutes.  Once we arrived, we went to the ticket counter to check our bags to Hong Kong and make our way through security and immigration. It seemed our guide would get a little irritated that we were lagging behind. I don’t think she has ever met a person like Michael.  I explained several times during our trip that it is hard for his little legs to keep up… (BUT he is just like Morgan, determined to do things himself.) We had no problems through security and away we went.
Finally made it to our gate and waited about an hour and a half to board the plane…tried to set up Skype, but couldn’t figure it out with their Wii Fi.  Our flight was less than an hour and this is where the challenges began.   I asked someone where we go to claim our bags…she pointed us down a corridor,  THEN I SAW ALL THESE PEOPLE STANDING IN DISNEY WORLD TYPE LINES!!! WINDING AND WINDING!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? Aren’t we still in the same country????  Apparently not!! We had to go through immigration again!!! Had to get arrival and departure cards filled out, and wait and wait and wait. I really was done with the day. Poor little Michael just wanted to go to bed, thankfully Mason was SO HELPFUL and got me straightened out!! I believe we were in that crazy line for over an hour probably closer to an hour and a half!!!!! When I went up to the counter I gave the officer our passports.  Michael’s passport was attached to a brown SEALED envelope which is for US immigration! I was told NOT TO SEPARATE IT!  The officer was SO RUDE and said “Take it off, I need the passport!”  I said, “I can’t separate it, it is for the US immigration.” Finally after he yelled at me a couple of times, another officer came over and he said, ok but he was just as mad as the first guy. I was shaking like a leaf and trying not to fall apart. Mason just kept saying “don’t worry, it’s going to be okay.” WHAT A LOVE HE IS!! Got out of there FINALLY!!  More walking to get to where the stand is to catch our shuttle, it was now 12:40am!!!! I would NEVER have down through HK at that time, if I had known the ordeal of immigration. My agency had only said that if I go through HK I wouldn’t have a guide. I didn’t need a guide, but would have appreciated knowing what the procedure was…Got to the hotel, check in  -they tried to give me a room with one bed and a CRIB!  I said, nope I need 2 beds, no crib. I guess the travel agency assumed I was adopting a baby!  Asked about internet, I should have had free wii fi...just wanted to check in with matt and let him know we were safe!  Couldn’t do it, called and it hooked me to some far away country, and she couldn’t get it done wither (I thought I was calling the front desk) I then called the front desk and they said I needed to come downstairs! Knock it off, it was now 1:40 am, I said forget it and grabbed a shower and went to bed for a really quick sleep! 
The sun came blazing in the room at 5:45am. I was terrified again that if I went back to sleep that I would not wake up and miss our flight…oh how I love a cold, dark hotel room!!  The view of the mountains was incredible but could not get a good shot of them through the hotel window with the glare of the sun on the water. Just take my word for it!!
Michael in our 2012 VBS t-shirt
SKY - EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE WITH GOD!!
I got up and started getting ready for a long 36 plus hours ahead of us. The boys woke up a bit later. Left the hotel on the 8 am shuttle.  Helpful people were there this morning!! YEAH!! Went to the United  Airlines counter.  It was here that the counter worker separated Michael’s passport and SEALED BROWN ENVELOPE!! I didn’t even know he did it, then said, “oh my gosh, don’t do that please.” He stapled it back and I just had to pray that it would be okay…He checked our 3 bags through to Jacksonville (this is not true I later found out!!), and then we were off to find our gate. We had not had breakfast, but even though our flight was not boarding until 10:45, I wanted to get to the area since I had no idea how far it was…GLAD I DID THAT!!  IT WAS FAR!! Again, go through immigration/customs leaving and security. They had a line for families with children! YEAH AGAIN! Our gate signs showed to the left, but then we had to go up and down several escalators and then took a shuttle to the other side of the airport for our gate. Found it and THEN we could eat. Most expensive meal we had on the trip!!  I was unaware that HK is very expensive. Don’t order a second cup of coffee, because they don’t give free refills! I never heard of such a thing!!! That was $10!  But it was pretty good coffee, I must say.
Flight was almost full. Michael was so excited!! He does his arms like he is a plane and then makes the swooshing noise…precious!! We got on and he asked one of the flight attendants a question.  She didn’t speak Mandarin, so she asked one of the other attendants…He looked up at her and asked her the same question…I asked her what he asked and she said he said , “Are you sure this airplane is going to the states??” How precious!! He is trying to make sure that is where we are taking him. I have told him several times, but he wanted to be sure! The trust this child is having in us is unbelievable!!  I know he misses his foster parents and sisters, but this is permanent. That was only temporary until God lined up all the people He lined up to get his file to us!! I know I am going to be hit like a ton of bricks when I get home…It may not be immediately, but it’s coming!! I know it!!  I have had moments during this trip, but the flood gates have stayed at bay.  I know I have said Mason has been incredible, but I actually don’t have words to describe the bond that has formed during this trip. I am not his friend, I am his mother, but what we have shared is indescribable.  I’ve always thought he was beyond his years in many ways, this trip showed it.  I think 11 sounds so young, but yet, there were moments he acted like a man.  Proud is an understatement. Humbled beyond words that I get to be his mommy, and Morgan’s and Maddox’s and Michael’s…and I get to be Matt’s wife. What more could I want…nothing!
Getting ready for take off - USA  BOUND!! AMEN!!


Last look at his homeland - ready for his new life

LAST VIEWS - BREATHTAKING
The flight to Chicago was beyond long! None of us slept much; Michael got more than any of us. They watched some of the videos played on the screens.  Michael can LAUGH! And he can do it loudly!! So hilarious! All my boys can laugh very LOUD! So the lady in front us appeared and acted very entitled. Seriously, her seat seemed to be able to go back further than any of the other seats on the plane.  I should not have been the one sitting behind her with my "mommy long legs"!!  But I dealt with it, because Michael was in the window seat and Mason was in the middle. Mason would have switched with me, but I didn’t want him to be cramped either.  One of the shows that was on was a “prank” show…there were no words, just silly music and you watched a scene and saw the people be shocked at what they just witnessed. Well, Michael couldn’t get enough of it!  He was laughing and laughing. I was laughing because he was laughing.  All the window covers were shut, it was sometime in the afternoon, but they had the covers down to try to begin the process of adjusting our bodies to the time change we were going to experience.  The cranky entitled lady in front of me turned around and said “shhhhhh” to Michael.  I was really wanting to say something but didn’t of course, this was a long flight and didn’t want to make any waves.  She told him that on 3 different occasions… I rolled my eyes in the back of my head because I couldn’t believe it…She was hearing a child laugh and it was irritating her. Really???  Does she know what has happened in this child’s life?? No! Does she know that has was left at an extremely young age, found by police, lived in an orphanage, lived in foster care where he was very loved, and then taken from there and brought to a white woman and a white boy that he can’t communicate with and has to trust that they are going to take care of him and not hurt him. She is going to shhhsh him??!! Jiminy Christmas!! He could have been hysterical, crying for hours with all that he has been through and she should have been thanking God that he was laughing!! But, there lies another issue, it was doubtful that she knows My God! She also called the flight attendant later to have her tell some passengers on the other side of the plane to shut their window shades…She was trying to sleep, she slept a lot of the flight.  The funny thing is, is that she had an eye cover for her eyes, BUT still needed the people on the other side of the plane to accommodate her.  Really, I seriously didn’t understand why she wasn’t in business or first class…I apologize for the rant, I had to share this.  It really was comical since she clearly thought of herself  as “better” and “more important” than every other passenger on the plane…I do have some news…she wasn’t, and neither was I…we all had the same purpose for being on this plane…to get to the United States for one reason or another…I honestly was about to bust at the seams as we got closer and closer to the end of the flight.  I told Michael different countdowns for landing.  I thought we had 20 minutes left and then they made an announcement, “We are on schedule to land at 12:50”  I looked at my watch and it was 1:20…I’m thinking, what is he talking about, we are LATE! Oops, landing in Chicago in the CENTRAL TIME ZONE!  Blond moment and no sleep!!
Upon our landing I couldn’t contain my tears! Finally back in America!! The land that we love and appreciated before we left and the one we appreciate even more now!!! Mason even told one of our traveling partners that he appreciated our LAWS especially the traffic laws since we really didn’t see any evidence in China that they had any!! (driving on the sidewalk and just driving in any lanes, making your own lanes etc.) It truly is a site!!
We couldn’t wait to get through immigration and get on the next flight (which wasn’t leaving for SEVERAL hours.) They had told me that my bags were checked through Jacksonville, but we had to collect them and go through the passport area and immigration. Little did I know what we were going to deal with getting through this phase after a 14 hour flight!! WE DID NOT GET A WARM WELCOME FROM OUR COUNTRY!!! It was NOTHING BUT AWFUL AND LIKE A NIGHTMARE FROM HOMELAND SECURITY!! I am still trying to figure out the problem!!  We went to the passport area for citizens. I believe I was in lane 32 or 30. (The man in lane 31 was also awful to another family!) I walked up to the desk and the man at the desk was already disgusted. I did not get his name, surely wish I had!  He said, "How many are there of you??" in a very nasty tone.  I told him 3.  He started to separate Michael's passport from the sealed brown envelope that I had been told could not be separated until immigration…Mason said, please don’t separate that and I asked him as well…He said, “It’s going to get separated down there anyway. I’m doing my job.”  I said, ‘Sir, I am just doing what I have been told. He mumbled under his breath with pure hatred on his face, stamping the documents! I did not understand what his problem was.  I said, very calmly and quietly, “wow, Welcome home to America. I have been gone 2 weeks to adopt my son, and have been on a 14 hour flight and this is the warm welcome I am getting from my country. Wow that just took the wind out of my sail, thank you.” He didn’t acknowledge me, clearly he was an unhappy man… I finally gathered our passports back from him and went to our next stop – Immigration.  Surely these people will be nice…We went to the counter and someone told me that the person working the desk has stepped away, put the file on the counter and then sit and wait. Okay…so we sat and waited and waited.  We just were so ready to get chips and salsa!!  The person finally came back and started opening the envelopes and processing the documents…then there was a hesitation…He looked at another person working there, he was Asian. They looked at the documents then the first person took Michael’s passport and another sheet and left the area, without saying a word to me…I was concerned so I asked the Asian guy, Is there a problem?”  He said that Michaels' medical report in the sealed brown envelope stated that he has TB a or b, they are not sure. Like I said before he tested positive on the skin test but the chest x-ray was clear.  The Asian worker said "I test positive on the skin test and I don't have it. A lot of Asians test positive but they don't have it, they were just exposed at some time.  It's NOT a problem. There is no treatment plan on his report, he does not have it" I felt better with him telling me this even though I already knew this…The other worker (heavy Russian accent) came back and he also shared that his medical exam had expired 7 days prior. He didn't let me look at the sheet long enough to see what he was talking about with the dates. He just said it expired on 6/30/12!  I told him I didn’t understand, but he really could have cared less…He got my phone number and said the CDC will call me this week.  I’m not worried about it now, but I was concerned then, and it was very upsetting. My BP I’m sure was up and I just couldn’t get out of there fast enough. He finally told me to go over to lane 1 and check my bags through the machines…I got to lane 1 and another unfriendly person was there to greet me…I was just about done! Thank God that Mason was with me as he was very calming!!!  This worker told me, “put your bags on the belt” in yet another irritated voice…a requirement to work there must have been, “you must be miserable and unkind and dislike people in general.”  Another worker looked at me, and he must have seen what I had been going through and must have also seen that I looked like I was going to crack…He said, “Did you go to China to adopt?” In an extremely broken voice I said, “yes.”  He then said, “You don’t have to do that, go on through. Congratulations.” That is when I said through my tears, ‘thank you, you are the first person to say that to me” He said, “I am so sorry it took so long.” He truly felt bad, and when Mason and I discussed this yesterday, he said, “That man was a God sighting!” (During VBS the kids are encouraged to see God in different places!) We went to re-check our bags for the next flight and an airport employee told me to check and see if there was an earlier flight since my flight didn’t leave for such a long time! I was beyond excited to think I could get home earlier. It was not meant to be...if immigration hadn’t been such an issue we could have left…the flight was pulling out when I was at the counter.  Oh well, it was okay. We dropped our bags on the belt and headed for Concourse B to Chili’s for some chips, salsa and a diet coke!  Made it and hung out for a very long time! Our waiter left the ticket and said to just give it to the waitress whenever. I had told him that we just wanted to be comfortable while waiting all the hours we had to wait.  A couple sat down next to our table. I was talking to my sister Jane explaining what we had just endured. The couple next to us overheard and said how sorry they were that we had to deal with that. We talked with them for over an hour. There were just coming back from Ireland celebrating their 29th wedding anniversary! Even through Ireland was a great place to visit, they still were so thankful to live in the USA! We all should be so thankful for all the freedoms we have here!!All the opportunities! The list is too long and I’m sure your eyes have probably shut a time or two during this blog post, maybe you have had to break for breakfast, lunch or dinner, or a snack, or coffee…There is a lot to cover!! 
We headed for Concourse C around 5pm…maybe it was 4:30 I can’t remember…anyway we made it to the Gate and looked at the signage and the display had a different city listed.. I thought  maybe this is still too early and there is a flight leaving here before ours…nice thought, but not true…they changed our gate! Really??? We walked all the way down here for nothing.  Poor Michael!! Does he think he is on a wild goose chase?? Does he get to eat it in the end?? Oh my goodness, I was getting delirious!  To find someone to tell me how to get to the new gate was a challenge…I went to a United counter and there were 2 people talking to each other about someone going on a flight. They were in the middle of trying to figure something out, but never acknowledged that I was there or anything…they pretended they did not see me standing at the counter. Not once did they look up and say, ‘we’ll be with you in a minute.’ NOTHING!  After about 3 minutes of standing there, we left to try to find someone else that could help. Found another counter, and asked the man…He said to go look on the screens in the concourse.  He finally did tell me what gate, but really would have rather I left and looked at a screen.  He had to be there anyway, why did he have to act like my asking a question was such an inconvenience???  I do not understand why it is so hard for some people to be nice and happy to help…We had to take a shuttle to another concourse because I felt awful that Michael was SO TIRED!!!  He said he wasn’t but he clearly was!!! 
The shuttle ride over, I noticed a couple that looked SO FAMILIAR!!  I was saying to myself, I know I know them!!  Kept thinking with my fog-ridden brain and then knew I knew them from our old church in Ponte Vedra!  I had to ask so I did, ‘do you live in Ponte Vedra?’ She responded with yes and I asked if they went to the church and then another yes, then asked if they knew Emory and Betty Lou (my dad and step-mother) and they said yes. I explained that I was his daughter, they asked what was I doing in Chicago…told them my oldest son and I just went to China and I adopted this little boy and we are on our way home!  They were precious and very excited for us.  Found out later that my husband knew them from working on the stewardship campaign and other things from the church.  They are also good friends with some of our good friends from our church now.  Small world!!
MASON IS SO TIRED!!!
I was talking to another woman while we were waiting to board. She also looked familiar…finally asked some questions, and yes, I had met her at our church! She is good friends with another friend from church! Goodness gracious!  So fun to have nice people on this flight!!
The flight was about 2 hours and felt like 14!  We were all tired but none of us slept for more than a few minutes!! The anticipation of seeing Matt, Morgan and Maddox was a bit much for all of us!  We were all so excited!! Mason was looking forward to seeing his youngest brothers, and he couldn’t wait for Matt to give a hug. He knows how proud he made his daddy!! I texted Matt and let him know that we landed.  I had visions of what this reunion would be like. I got my camera out to record Michael getting off the plane…when we made it to the actual building, do you think I had some tears???! Yep,  I sure did!! Then we came out of the concourse headed to the main part in the middle of all the concourses. I love our airport!! It is very organized and it’s much smaller than all the other ones I had been in over the last 2 weeks!! It was almost 11pm so everything was closed…just a few people in the airport.  I saw my family, even without my glasses…they had a couple of signs, I was recording and sniffling at the same time.  Michael went straight to Morgan first. As he was approaching him he said, “Morgan!” then he gave him a hug…then he gave a hug to Maddox, then he gave Matt a hug…I got video and pictures and it was priceless!!! So precious! The grand finale!! He has arrived and he is safe!!  We are here to watch over and protect him, provide for him and love him…he was home!!! As all the boys were starting to head towards the escalator, Morgan grabbed Michael’s right hand and Maddox grabbed his left and Mason was carrying some bags.  They walked hand in hand to retrieve our luggage…The visions I have carried in my head for so long have been playing out in reality over the past 2 weeks…it is truly amazing what God has done…each and every detail could only be explained by Him, In His Way and His Time.  The picture taken in the airport of the SIX OF US was taken by the couple that attends our old church! We were so thankful for their gift to us!!
Meeting Daddy - melting the heart!
First family photo! Family of 6!
ALL MY BABIES!!


We gathered our luggage a few minutes later, and then went to the van…It was clean!  That is a switch! We are always in and out of it so much it rarely is! We drove through downtown and he looked at all the buildings lit up…we explained that was downtown Jacksonville. He said Yes…he responds yes to a lot of things…in the beginning, he was getting yes and no interchanged, but I believe he knows which is which now…like when he told me he could swim…he said yes and the answer was clearly no when I saw him sink in the pool. 
All the boys fell asleep before we made it home.

Mason woke up in the middle of some dream or thought or something and started blurting out something about, WE HAVE TO GO BACK!!!  No idea what that was all about, but maybe he thought we had forgotten Michael!
The house was lit up and there were yard signs everywhere!!  Smiley faces, hearts, stars and “WELCOME HOME!” My neighbors had also made some signs welcoming Michael! It was a wonderful homecoming…


Matt had the “triage” laundry baskets set up in the garage so I could sort and bring everything straight into the washing machine! Just in case there were any surprise visitors coming back with us (there were not!!).  So thankful I have commercial size appliances and all the laundry was done and put away within 24 hours!! That was a good feeling!! 
I knew we were going to have an issue with the dogs…remember he was terrified in a store that had a couple of puppies…Maggie and Molly were in the crate but they were barking. I picked him up and showed him they were in the crate and couldn’t get him…they wouldn’t anyway, but they would “greet him.”  He came in looked around and Morgan and Maddox wanted to give a tour of everything. There were signs in his room, and signs on each of the boys’ doors so he could see which room belonged to each brother. 



He would nod his head and say yes anytime we said anything. It was hilarious.  My friend Mary had brought over  some beginning board books for him. He loved them!  Watching his expressions was amazing.  So many new things can be overwhelming, but honestly he is so easy and a “go with the  flow” he seemed fine…I have said before, I envisioned him being fine, but really this is beyond fine…I know he doesn’t even know it yet, but he is going to have an unbelievable relationship with Jesus!! The boys stayed up until about 1:30. We gathered in Mason’s room, said prayers and then took each one to their rooms, sang “Love you forever” and kissed them goodnight…Michael was asleep within 30 seconds! They were up around 8 and it was time to start our first full day of being together…they played the Wii Guitar Hero (thank you to the Ziegler family!!) Michael had his first peanut butter and jelly sandwich and he loved it! 

We Skyped with our friend Lauren and her daughter and I was hoping that she could talk to him about the dogs, and also ask him if there is something he wants to know or ask us about…he isn’t speaking Chinese to us, just hand gestures and ok, yes, no…I have yet to be able to type with the translator in a way for him to understand how he can type in it to communicate with us…he just isn’t getting the concept…Betty talked to him about the dogs, and explained that they are sweet and we wouldn’t let anything happen to him, we were here to protect him and it is okay…Matt and I sat upstairs with him in the loft, with Maggie. He was scared, and matt had his arm around him and we kept telling him it was ok…he knows what that means…if Maggie moved, he would shudder…he had tears sitting in the well…it was breaking my heart but I really knew that we were on the verge of a breakthrough!!! He literally was trying to back himself INTO the wall! We had Maggie on her back we were able to get him to reach out to touch her paw…it was soft and he smiled, did it again, and again…then he petted her and she was calm. He smiled more, and more…It was unbelievable!  He went from terrified to peace! The transformation on his face was indescribable!!! The Holy Spirit was present and took his fear away COMPLETELY and replaced it with peace!!  He was laughing and carrying on and we were so excited. Now that he was so excited about the dogs and they needed to go outside for a “break” he went with us…when we went outside in our bare feet, Michael stepped on the grass almost like he was stepping on hot coals and lifting his knees high in the air…Interpretation lead us to believe that he had never been on grass before certainly not St. Augustine grass in bare feet…Actually looking back at our trip , I didn’t see grass except at the zoo and parks…I don’t recall seeing any at the orphanage and definitely not at his home.  His feet are very tender, and these are all new sensations but he is processing everything so incredibly well!!  If you have been following our journey you have to get a real sense that this is ALL a “GOD THING!”  Like I have said time and time again, there are NO coincidences!!! Only God can allow all these things to play out…


I need to clarify…Even if everything was NOT going well, this journey would STILL have been led by God!!  Our story of our spiritual daughter, Micah, was God inspired. Things did not turn out as WE had planned, BUT we were still used in her life!  It is okay. We are okay…I still pray that she is okay, happy and healthy, that is my position now…
While playing the Wii upstairs in the loft area, which is REALLY TIGHT now, with 4 boys and the 2 additional boys from across the street, injuries are bound to happen especially in this house!! I heard Maddox crying, got to love him, he is the baby, and can just get hurt on a dime, like nobody’s business!! Heard what could have been a bad situation, and ran upstairs (my exercise some days!!)…Michael was giving him a hug and saying,” okay, okay.” He was trying to let him know that he was okay!! Michael is used to helping take care of his younger foster siblings and it shows… all the write ups that I had read about him WERE TRUE, not false like so many people told me to assume…I knew Michael was who they said he was…I knew that he knew how to treat people, I knew that he was smart, I knew it all, because I had trust and faith in our God about this child. 
This journey has been, from the beginning, about faith…being on the other side of the world without part of my family has been one of the most challenging adventures I have ever encountered…I had many fears along the way…would the plane crash, am I risking our lives for this child, are we going to make it out of there, are we going to get sick, what if something happens to me, then what happens to Mason, or Michael…the list goes on and on.  There were moments of panic, what have I done, how is our family going to change, why didn’t I just say NO, this is too big for me, for us…
The answer is this…
Hebrews 11:6 –“And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.”
Read the entire chapter of Hebrews 11 here, and think about all the people listed and how their faith sustained them.
Faith in Action
Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. 2 This is what the ancients were commended for.
3 By faith we understand that the universe was formed at God’s command, so that what is seen was not made out of what was visible.
4 By faith Abel brought God a better offering than Cain did. By faith he was commended as righteous, when God spoke well of his offerings. And by faith Abel still speaks, even though he is dead.
5 By faith Enoch was taken from this life, so that he did not experience death: “He could not be found, because God had taken him away.”[a] For before he was taken, he was commended as one who pleased God. 6 And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.
7 By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to save his family. By his faith he condemned the world and became heir of the righteousness that is in keeping with faith.
8 By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going. 9 By faith he made his home in the promised land like a stranger in a foreign country; he lived in tents, as did Isaac and Jacob, who were heirs with him of the same promise. 10 For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God. 11 And by faith even Sarah, who was past childbearing age, was enabled to bear children because she[b] considered him faithful who had made the promise. 12 And so from this one man, and he as good as dead, came descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and as countless as the sand on the seashore.
13 All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance, admitting that they were foreigners and strangers on earth. 14 People who say such things show that they are looking for a country of their own. 15 If they had been thinking of the country they had left, they would have had opportunity to return. 16 Instead, they were longing for a better country—a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them.
17 By faith Abraham, when God tested him, offered Isaac as a sacrifice. He who had embraced the promises was about to sacrifice his one and only son, 18 even though God had said to him, “It is through Isaac that your offspring will be reckoned.”[c] 19 Abraham reasoned that God could even raise the dead, and so in a manner of speaking he did receive Isaac back from death.
20 By faith Isaac blessed Jacob and Esau in regard to their future.
21 By faith Jacob, when he was dying, blessed each of Joseph’s sons, and worshiped as he leaned on the top of his staff.
22 By faith Joseph, when his end was near, spoke about the exodus of the Israelites from Egypt and gave instructions concerning the burial of his bones.
23 By faith Moses’ parents hid him for three months after he was born, because they saw he was no ordinary child, and they were not afraid of the king’s edict.
24 By faith Moses, when he had grown up, refused to be known as the son of Pharaoh’s daughter. 25 He chose to be mistreated along with the people of God rather than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin. 26 He regarded disgrace for the sake of Christ as of greater value than the treasures of Egypt, because he was looking ahead to his reward. 27 By faith he left Egypt, not fearing the king’s anger; he persevered because he saw him who is invisible. 28 By faith he kept the Passover and the application of blood, so that the destroyer of the firstborn would not touch the firstborn of Israel.
29 By faith the people passed through the Red Sea as on dry land; but when the Egyptians tried to do so, they were drowned.
30 By faith the walls of Jericho fell, after the army had marched around them for seven days.
31 By faith the prostitute Rahab, because she welcomed the spies, was not killed with those who were disobedient.[d]
32 And what more shall I say? I do not have time to tell about Gideon, Barak, Samson and Jephthah, about David and Samuel and the prophets, 33 who through faith conquered kingdoms, administered justice, and gained what was promised; who shut the mouths of lions, 34 quenched the fury of the flames, and escaped the edge of the sword; whose weakness was turned to strength; and who became powerful in battle and routed foreign armies. 35 Women received back their dead, raised to life again. There were others who were tortured, refusing to be released so that they might gain an even better resurrection. 36 Some faced jeers and flogging, and even chains and imprisonment. 37 They were put to death by stoning;[e] they were sawed in two; they were killed by the sword. They went about in sheepskins and goatskins, destitute, persecuted and mistreated— 38 the world was not worthy of them. They wandered in deserts and mountains, living in caves and in holes in the ground.
39 These were all commended for their faith, yet none of them received what had been promised, 40 since God had planned something better for us so that only together with us would they be made perfect.

THANKS BE TO GOD! WE ARE HOME! WE ARE HOME!!
THE VISION I  HAD FOR OVER A YEAR HAS BECOME A REALITY!!

Friday, July 6, 2012

Packed and ready to go!! Goodbye Guangzhou!!



Today I woke up at 5:45...anticipating a long 2 days ahead of us, I couldn't sleep any longer...I will have plenty of time to sleep on the plane or when I get home!!. I skyped my waiting husband and children this morning, and my oldest sister Elizabeth (Beedo - she would say wisest...) My daddy is in the mountains and not able to skype so I have missed him the passed several days.  My sister Anne (Annie) in NC, I have only been only to skype with twice and I think she has only seen Michael once (BTW, Anne is a heart transplant recipient, October 9, 2009 and swam 1 mile non-stop the other day in 42 minutes!! Pretty awesome I'd say!!!)...Momma Zanie (my sister Jane) I have been able to reach most days except for today...
It has rained off and on today...we had our smallest breakfast to date this morning...took at a cab to Shamian Island again to try to find a dress for me and,...I rarely treat myself and Matt insisted that I get one! We each have something to represent Michael's heritage so I'm good...I have looked for shoes for Michael each day, but nothing...things here are more juvenile and I certainly don't want to set him up for someone to tease him!!! He has been wearing the same sandals the whole time, and I'm looking forward to him wearing shoes that fit!! He has a closet full of various sizes already, plus lots of clothes from Morgan. He is a little smaller than I thought so the pants and shorts I had altered are still too long...it's fine though, we improvised and rolled the waistband. It's all good! 
ANOTHER BLESSING TODAY!!! Guess what Michael got??? Do you remember about Michael losing his glasses the other day!!! The lady from one of the shops saw us shopping today and brought him his glasses!!! We were so excited!!! That was definitely worth the ride over there!!! I now have them securely tucked away in his backpack, along with his little soccer ball, books, crayons and paper. 




I told him on the translator this morning that we are flying to Hong Kong tonight and then 2 more plane rides and we will see Daddy, Morgan and Maddox!  I'll explain tomorrow how LONG the rides are!!!  Looking forward to getting through Chicago and grabbing some chips and salsa from Chili's and a SALAD!!!  Unless you have be deprived of certain things you have no idea how much they mean to you!!  A coke zero is NOT a diet coke, it's a FLAT COKE!!  They tempt you at the buffets with all the salad items, but you don't dare!! I know that if I did there would be consequences and I could NOT deal with that on a 14 hour flight!! I've already told Matt to get to Publix and get some taco seasoning, yellow rice, black beans and salad items so we can have some Mexican...Michael is going to do so well in the food category! I am really excited about that!! I was talking to one of our travel partners and her last adoption, she was with a family that had a child that WOULDN'T EAT AND WOULDN'T SLEEP!!! WHAT A COMBINATION!! I am so blessed that Michael is doing so well!!  Everyone that see hims says he is precious and is very smart! He is! 
FAMILY OF SIX ALMOST ALL TOGETHER!!! I can't express in words how immensely grateful I am that we have taken this journey to add to our family through adoption.

Ephesians 1:4-6

For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love  he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will  to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.

 I was just five-years-old, when I aspired a wife and mommy.  It is the best JOB I have ever had!! I had/have incredible role models to instill that desire in me at such a young age.  I am overjoyed with the abundance of blessings that the Lord has bestowed upon me. I am a sinner, but I know that He loves me. I know that He forgives me. I know that He died for me. I know that when He calls me home I will be with Him forever. 

I look forward to continuing to share how the Lord is working in my life and my family.  I hope that you will continue to check in...Thanks for following us to China and thank you for continued prayers...Blessings to all!!

Psalm 23:5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

US Consulate appointment!!

I can’t believe that we just have one more day here in Guangzhou! I honestly thought it would never be here!! If I NEVER see a fried egg again, it will be too soon!! Or real bacon!! Okay maybe I will take the bacon (shhhhh!!) I have quit taking pictures at breakfast, just know that we are all slowing down in our consumption during that meal…Michael did NOT clear his plate this morning, which was very unusual…Maybe he is bracing himself for home!  Mason and I didn’t get too much today either.  Their French toast tastes sort of like a doughnut, really good and definitely deep fried…I am most definitely going to have to reschedule my physical!!! Looking forward to my B12 shot when I get home since I FORGOT my pills!! Starting to get so sleepy where I need a nap and I am not a napper!!! (I just took a nap!!!)
So this morning was a BIG DAY!!! We met in the lobby for our trip to the US Consulate where we took several documents and applied for Michael's visa.


We took the subway to a bookstore with a few in our group, for something to do. I bought Michael a couple of books. I didn't want to get too many since we really have to begin our focus on him learning English. I'm really starting to wonder how this will happen. Everyone says they catch on quickly and I'm sure he will, but if others have suggestions PLEASE HAND THEM OVER!!!  





Mason bought his brothers a little something, He was so sweet. He wanted to get something for Matt, but we haven't managed that yet, time is of the essence!! We may head to the island tomorrow for a bit, so many something will jump at us then. I have one more park on my list that I wanted to take the boys, so we will maybe combine that trip tomorrow morning. Mason has been so helpful to the others traveling. Trying to make the children laugh and helping the mommas with strollers on sidewalks, escalators and anything that makes life with a toddler more challenging. It has been amazing to watch him while in China. I do believe that this been a trip of a lifetime, and something that he will take with him forever. When he is an adult I pray he has fond memories of this trip with me and also Michael. I pray it has given him a new look at the world around him and the freedoms that we enjoy in America. As our guide was talking yesterday, she mentioned that in China they are free to worship as they wish, but if the government does not agree then they have to make a change. I'm sorry, but that is not freedom if you have to conform to the government. We can not change what the Bible says, period! It has been interesting to hear her say some of the things about her country. I know I am grateful for our homeland and can't wait to get back there!!!
Tomorrow afternoon Elsie will go back there to pick up Michael’s US Visa so he can enter the United States. I have already said that he will gain his citizenship upon our first landing, which will be in Chicago! We will be checking out of this hotel at 5pm and hang out until 7:30. At that time, our guide will escort us to the airport and get us checked in for our flight to Hong Kong which doesn’t leave until 10:20pm!!!  We arrive in Hong Kong at 11:15! I can’t remember why we set up my departure like this, but it doesn’t matter now, because this is what it is!  Once we arrive we will gather our bags, catch the hotel shuttle and go to the Marriott SkyHotel about 5 minutes away for the night.  Our flight from Hong Kong departs at 11:10am Saturday morning, which is 11:10pm on the 6th for everyone on the east coast of the US….arrival in Chicago is 12:50pm on the 7th and then we proceed through immigration.  Our layover time is SIX HOURS AND 35 MINUTES!!!  WE DON’T LEAVE UNTIL 7:25PM AND ARRIVAL IN JACKSONVILLE IS AT 10:38PM Saturday night! WHOA ! I would imagine we will be 3 tired puppies by the time we arrive in Jacksonville, but we very thankful puppies to be HOME!!!
Almost home!!  

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Happy Birthday America, we are almost there!!!


more food at breakfast! I was thrilled to eat since I went to bed hungry!! I looked all of the place for a very small pack of miniture Reese's that I had packed and could not find them anywhere!!! The more I looked the more I wanted them! They weren't even purchased for me!!  (I found them this afternoon!!I've only had 3, really would like some dark chocolate!!!)
We went to the folk art place this morning, again, I don't know the name of it...

rooftop of building

Travel group photo
Happy 4th!

Happy 4th

Stained glass

Ginger Jar - reminds me of my momma

I wanted to be in this picture! It looks so peaceful!!!
Michael watching an artist create

Boys and their new friend, Liv from DC (adopted 2.5 years ago-she has a new sister)
our guide was telling us some stories on the ride over...some words about people praying TO their ancestors and leaving things for their ancestors...I don't get it...why would you pray to a dead person? I only pray to the one and only God!  And He is alive!!! I wish others did too...it is so sad to me that there are so many people in this world that don't know our awesome God. I could not be where I am today in my life, had it not been for Him and His Grace and MERCY!!  My Lord, I should have been dead ten times over, and he spared my life. He had me born into the most incredible family, brought me the most wonderful man to marry and blessed us now with 4 sons!

The looks on the faces of people when I say I have 4 boys!! I love it! I can't imagine my life without any of them!  They are each similar to each other, but yet each very unique. It will be interesting to see how each one develops a relationship with Michael. The relationship that has begun in China between Mason and Michael is amazing...Mason is so good at being the big brother...I know sometimes it is a chore, but he has his place in the family because God saw him fit for that position.  If you have read "Our story from the beginning" or know it because you have been a part of our lives for a VERY LONG TIME, then you know at one time there was a big question if we would ever be blessed with children...Thank you Jesus that You allowed us to bring 3 sweet baby boys into this world through Your amazing creation of life, and also bring a sweet child into our family that needed a family -  a father and mother and three brothers and grandparents and aunts and uncles and cousins and church family and friends from all over.  I continue to stand in awe that we have the many blessings that we have.  The biggest blessing of course is the never ending love of our Savior, Jesus Christ...It brings tears to my eyes when I think of all He endured for me! Amen!!

Back to the day at hand, our country's birthday!! We didn't get to see any fireworks tonight, but that is okay. After our trip to the folk art place we went to the jade market. I was told there were really good deals there...I am not a big shopper and not really a fan of jade...I did not find any deals that people had discussed. I picked up a bracelet and the lady said 2000 yuan...I'm sorry, that is no deal!! Next!
We hung out at the hotel for a while, and the boys played some soccer in the room!  Michael has got some moves and he will be ready for soccer at the end of next month!!


 I took the boys down to the pool this afternoon...Let me just say this...WE HAVE GOT TO GET THIS BOY SWIMMING!!! He has a tube with handles, but now he doesn't want it!  He hangs on the side and then lets go and then grabs the wall again. He knows not to drink the water. I have no idea how to teach a 10 year (or any age) how to swim!!  He is ready to get moving though. I don't think it will take him long once he understands...
We did have our first time today that he said NO to me...He was in the pool and I told him it was time to get out. He said, "No" and continued doing what he had been doing, just going under and then coming back up, he was having too much fun and didn't want it to end (he didn't say it ugly, he just said no)...Well, I told him to come to me, did not raise my voice, but let him know that he should do as he is told just with pointing and body language. He wanted to stay, but he knew he should come to me. He did, I dried him off and told him we were leaving. He was a little sad, for about 2 seconds, that we were leaving. I told him later we would come back tomorrow. I could tell he felt bad, but I believe it was because he tried not the listen to me...I have told Mason, "money see, monkey do." If Michael sees him not listen the first time I say something, then Michael will think that is okay, and of course it certainly is NOT!
We got back to the room, then we went in search of dinner! Growing so exhausted over trying to find food. I can't wait to have a salad!!! Went down the street, found a restaurant, but Mason couldn't get passed the goose hanging on a rack and said he would hurl if we stayed there...I was sure Michael was exhausted walking around with his little legs... finally we came to chicken express, then Mason said, "how do we know it's chicken???" I said they are hanging right over there!  No heads or necks so it was ok...got it to go, and then stopped by...you guessed it, McDonalds for a McFlurry and Hot Fudge Sundae...poor Michael, he thinks dessert is a given EVERYDAY!!! IT'S NOT!!! He also thinks french fries are EVERYDAY TOO!  They aren't either!  He'll be fine, I am not worried. He will have whatever it is and be happy!  He is just so happy!!!
Elsie our guide discussed our Consulate appt for tomorrow. It is not clarrified, but children 10 and older or older than 10 are asked, "Do you want to be adopted?" So we don't know if he will be asked or not.  In preparation if he is asked, I told him a few things today on the translator..I said, "Two more nights at this hotel then we fly to Hong Kong for 1 night." He nodded excitedly, and said "Yes!" Then I said, "Two planes to get home to America to meet Daddy, Morgan and Maddox!" He again said, "Yes!" and seemed very excited!  I said, "WE ARE YOUR FAMILY FOREVER!" He smiled and said, "YES!"  So if he is asked if he wants to be adopted, I believe his answer will be YES!!!

While we were eating dinner, I got overwhelmed after I had prayed and thanked Mason for being here with me. That I was so proud of him, I was so proud of them. I know, I know, you already guessed what happened...WAH!!! the tears fell, and Mason said, "I'm white on rice." Then Michael came over and hugged me also...oh my goodness!!  So I said a few more things like we only had 2 more days after tonight, and blah blah blah...a few more tears and they immediately came to console again...Michael understood that they were happy tears, and not sad ones...He is going to do sooooooo well!!!
A friend gave me a homemade scripture book for me to bring along on my travels...I think she made it when she adopted her daughter...it has been so nice to just open it and have something I need at that very moment...
Psalm 91:1-2
"Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty...He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God, and I trust him."

Isaiah 40:11
"God tends to His flock like a shepherd. He gathers the lambs in His arms and carries them close to His Heart."

Three more sleeps!
Tomorrow's appointment is early!! 7:55 am to meet downstairs! This means that we have to get up and have breakfast super early!  It will be lights out in 10 minutes.
Thanks for following our journey and praying for all of us! God's Peace!